Honoring My Children

Today I would like to honor my children and all others who take active roles in caring for their parents and being their advocates. When we have our children we willingly sign up for the whole spectrum of joys and challenges of raising them.


They, on the other hand, choose how much they would like to be involved in our lives as we age. It is wonderful sharing adult relationships with our kids. I do recognize though that at times we may have to rely and depend on them for our well being.


Not every child can or will step up to that role when needed. I would like to let my two children and son-in-law know that their parents may not express often enough our gratitude and love. We do not take you for granted and we recognize the times you put your own lives on hold to help us. With love, thank you.

Lou Points Out Synchronous Moment

Lou was transported to a hospice unit at a different hospital in town. I can't quite describe what it felt like when he left his hospital room. Suddenly what I knew intellectually dropped down to the emotional level. He was taken over by an ambulance while Dani and I packed up his belongings in the room. Warner met us over there. When we got to the hospice unit we were directed to Lou's room. I walked in and Lou wrote on the paper to go out and look at the room number again. I did and immediately read 11 H 48. Remember this is Hospice. He was born in November of 1948. This orb picture was taken after I returned home after spending the night at the hospital. Warner, Dani, and I take turns.

Don't Underestimate the Comfort of a Stuffed Toy

Very often we forget the importance of touch to people of all ages and circumstances. It has been exactly one week my ex-husband was admitted to the hospital with a fast growing cancer. He has spent 4 days in the ICU with a very grim prognosis. 

A family can be uncertain how to comfort a loved one going through one of the most difficult times of their lives. My children found the perfect present. They came into the hospital room one evening with this charming, funny looking, soft Yoda stuffed toy and gave it to their father. The looks on all of their faces at finding such a loving bond is something I will always remember. Within moments I noticed their dad had instinctively held and entwined his fingers with Yoda's paws. Yoda is a constant comforting companion and only leaves his side during treatments. Yoda is able to hold his hand when we can't.

Everyone who comes in the room laughs and comments on Yoda. When things are so critical and serious in a room it is amazing how this stuffed toy totally can bring smiles and joy into darkness.

What a Typical Orb Looks Like and What and Orb Means to Me

I am intrigued by orbs. I can’t help it. My camera goes everywhere I go.  Orbs are spheres of light ranging from dense to translucent, mostly white, but occasionally colored that appear on digital flash photography. A typical orb is round with a defined nucleus. It has an outer edge and the middle usually has a marking such as concentric circles or a pattern. Every individual has their own interpretation or belief of what an orb is. To me, I view orbs as Angels and Spirit Guides that are evidence of guidance and support from the universal Divine.  When I see orbs in my photographs I feel like I am given the blessings of a tangible sign that there are miracles all around me. I am filled with awe every time orbs appear. I am a bit of a visionary and a life long learner. I look forward to sharing more about orbs in occasional posts. If you are on Face Book you may see many more orb pictures by going to Orbs Everywhere http://www.facebook.com/pages/Orbs-Everywhere/172964446067873

I noticed another synchronous event. This was posted at 11:11 which is a significant number that many people have been paying attention to in terms of symbolic signs.

Manners-The Lesson of the Car Door

The Lesson of the Car Door

        Manners. What does that one word evoke in your mind? Yesterday, I could not give words to my thoughts but today I can. In fact it is a question more about, “Why Manners?”

        It is my belief that when manners are engaged, it is a gentle acknowledgement that I see you. If practiced, manners can become unconscious, simple acts of kindness toward anyone and most likely consciously or unconsciously lovingly received.

        This lesson or knowledge came to me in the form of a silent question, “Will he open the car door? Or “Will he not open the car door?”

        The person in question unlocked the door and walked away leaving me to open the car door. Now, I know I am perfectly able to open the door. He knows that I am perfectly able to open the door. I found, however, that I was miffed. In the few nanoseconds it would have taken to open the door, he could have conveyed a feeling of caring and respect. Instead I felt let down and unappreciated.

        As an aside, if he had unlocked the door automatically or opened it from the driver’s I would not have thought twice about opening the door.

        Do you every think about how easily it is to use manners to help someone feel good about themselves?

It is true. You Should Check Out Your Name on Google Search

Have you looked up your name on a Google Search lately? More than likely you will be surprised by what you find there. Today as I was flipping through mine I found some interesting entries.
The one that most surprised me was a chapter that I had written, Childhood Delights was published in Chicken Soup for the Soul Think Positive Book, was posted on the following blog. I shall print it below but I was delighted by the date that it was posted at the top. It says March 19th, which happens to be my daughter's birthday. Some people may say, "So what?" But....if you are me, and you look for synchronicity in every aspect of your life, it is exciting. To me there are no accidents. At the moment I don't know why this unknown blog came out on that date, but for me it is a significant. I keep a book where I notate any event that relates to a synchronicity. This one will be added to the list. I love stories that relate synchronous moments. In my posts, I shall point out mine as examples of how even minor events can relate to your everyday life. 
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Mega Millions Winning Numbers: Childhood Delights

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So our human life but dies down to its root, and still puts forth its green blade to eternity. ~Henry David Thoreau My mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's long after I accepted the gradual changes I saw in her. I had grown us.

Orbs-A Description

Have you ever taken digitial pictures and noticed white circles on the developed photo? Did you dismiss this as a mistake? Did you think it could have been dust or water? Did you consider that it could have been something else. This something else that I am referring to is called orbs.